I was writing the other night and what I was writing was hysterical. I mean I was laughing full out, loving my sense of humor and it hit me that my persona is Boss Bitch and funny but myself in actuality is soft girl. and soft girl doesn't exactly suit me anymore.
Anyway, fast forward and I'm talking to my brother who mentions that he and my sister are going on a trip in October together to visit our father. So I invited myself along. And told them that unless they had HUGE objections to deal with it. I'm tired of being left out. (Oh, and I made my brother buy my plane tickets).
I know I can't go through life demanding things of other people but I can demand that I stop accepting situations that make me feel less.
Anyway, had some upsets recently. My baby cat Kitara got out and is gone. It's been over a week so I'm assuming bad things. My apartment flooded which only caused the ruination of one pair of slippers but did create a space saving moment for my microwave cart so it turned out to be an annoying blessing in disguise.
Fingers crossed for Kitara.
ReplyDeleteAnd HELL YEAH re: your brother.
Here's to many silver linings and blessings coming your way--preferably without the inconvenience of annoyances or minor disasters.
Above all: be kind to yourself.
Az, you know how 'do no harm' is like a great philosophy, 'be kind to yourself' should be treated like one of the Ten Commandments. How much better would life be if we remembered to be kind to ourselves first?
DeleteOh no, your kitty! Hoping for the best...
ReplyDeleteWilla, I know. I don't lose hope but after more than a week there's a lot less of it.
DeleteAny word on the kitty cat? Perhaps she's found shelter until she can come home. Did she have a collar? I know my ChaChi hated his but he needed it for when we transferred from Melbourne to Townsville, in case he decided he didn't like it (like I didn't) and decided to head back south lol. Hopefully she's ok xxxx
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