What’s Going On

 Well I’m excited. I’m vaccinated (yay for working in a doctor’s office), I’ve been reading my ass off and I found a web series I really like.

I finished two books this weekend: The Goblin Emperor by Katherine Addison and The Gentle Art of Fortune Hunting by K.J. Charles. Both books were excellent.

The Goblin Emperor is a wonderfully different book of an 18 year old Emperor’s son becoming Emperor. The main character Maia is uneducated, quite lost in the ways of the court and flying by the seat of his pants.

It’s a wonderful book, I say with a satisfied sigh. The author doesn’t really explain customs so much so sometimes you have to figure things out and make it make sense. But there’s plenty explained also. And almost immediately the reader is invested in Maia and wants him to succeed. So it’s a joyous journey.

The best part of the book is that it begins with a boy thrown into a world he doesn’t know and is unprepared for, but by the end he’s not only becoming an emperor who will lead well, he’s also creating a family/community around himself and conquering his deep isolation and loneliness.

The K.J. Charles book was a wonderful romance where not everybody’s happily ever after means finding a man but rather finding yourself and your passion and not letting it go. It’s a love story between two wonderful heroes but the women are the ones who bend the rules and find happiness away from the dance of The Marriage Mart and “polite” society.

And the web series I discovered is called The Hot Ones. It’s got like 9 or 10 seasons so I’m late to the game. But it’s an interview show where the interviewer is smart (Sean Evans) and the interviews take place while eating hot wings and I do mean those wings are hot. I love it. Sean is a brilliant interviewer and it’s joy to watch the interviewees start out really confident and then start gulping milk while crying hot tears from the wings.

Anyway, beyond that, I see a new knee doctor tomorrow and I’m hopeful that maybe living in pain will not remain my norm. And work sucks but it usually does so whatever.

My beta fish Sebastian is still alive and colorful. Nino the chihuahua is well and I did some sewing today.

Love to you all out there.

America’s Greatest Pandemic

 Is stupidity.

We all saw it this week as a bunch of white people were gathered together by the biggest con man to run this country in the hopes to overtake the government, kill the vice-president and destroy our democracy.

We saw their smirks and selfies as they shit in the halls of the senate and smeared their feces on the walls. The videos of them in Nancy Pelosi’s office, stealing her things and mocking her hard work and position.

Oh yeah... we saw the zip ties and mace. The guns and the noose. We saw their hearts and their egos. We saw how easily they were led and how quickly they were left standing asking “now what?”

They yelled democracy was being stolen from them as they tried to destroy democracy completely. They screamed the left are fascists while their leader asked them to rebel against a legal election that he rightfully lost.

We saw that they hate America with the very essence of their beings because America is not white and Christian and they are racists asswipes who are terrified of melanin. 

And Donald Trump told them “I love you. Go home” while the rest of America was counting the dead from a virus he doesn’t care about ravages our world. 

So we’re waiting to see what our elected officials are going to do as a fucking fiend holds the nuclear codes and any moment our world could be in flames. (I swear to God, Nancy Pelosi had to see her office violated and still thought she should be polite in the wake of this...)

It’s a mad time and the worst of it isn’t over. January 20th Joe Biden takes the oath of office and these right wing sheep might try again. After all, this isn’t the America they want and violence is okay as long as it isn’t against them.

And don’t get me started on the police who turned their backs and pointed these insurgents toward Adam Schiff’s office. For anyone saying Blue Lives Matter, just recognize that the average street cop is as racist and ignorant as these yahoos and more than happy to tear it all down.

This is the America Donald Trump has left us with and I don’t believe it’s fixable. Not in my lifetime. We were always heading into a wall (not the one that Mexico was paying for) and now we’ve hit it head on. We’re not coming back stronger after this. Trump has shown our enemies how easily we can be defeated and how little effort it will take.

He might nuke the world before January 20. He might not. But he most definitely destroyed us.

Thank God It's Over

 Driving into work this morning, talking to Carolyn and realizing that tomorrow is January 1 and in a few days the Georgia run-off will be decided and end of the month we'll have Joe Biden and Kamala Harris in office.

Our first woman in the white house.

Tres excellent.

Honestly, I'm not expecting miracles. But it will be nice to have a president who'll feel compassion. Can you believe that in the year of pandemic, the president of these divided states never once stated that he was aware or cared about all the Americans who died. Not once. Not once. 

We've had a monster running our country. We might now have another old, doddering white guy but at least he has empathy and heart.

Okay.

New Years.

If the world doesn't blow up tonight I'll be thankful to have gotten through 2020. Who can ask for more.

And let me say that the woman, as the women always do, got me through this year: Mollie, Carolyn, Lea, Myrna, AztecLady, Divas and Monbebes.

Thank the fuck it's finally over.

The World Isn't Burning

 just ignore the flames...

Bridgerton

 If you're on Twitter then you know the talk is all about Bridgerton, the new Netflix series. Based on the Bridgerton series by Julia Quinn, it's a love or hate.

I read the books (not all of them since finishing series is not something I aspire to but I remembered enough of the book to have moments of "oh yeah, I remember this).

So love or hate? I loved it. The hero, Simon is played by Rege-Jean Page who is utterly delectable. He's so fucking hot and when he turns a heated gaze onto the heroine my panties had scorch marks. That man has perfected the sexy smolder.

The heroine Daphne was so nondescript... she was probably perfect in the role but she was just bland as hell. I loved everyone else. The costumes were inspired. Not the proper ladies because they were boring. But oh my, the other ladies with their crazy colors and swelling bosoms. I was in heaven watching this.

So the things that people disliked was the casting being diverse. The Queen was black, the hero was black. Black, white, Asian... maybe it wasn't realistic but there was no reason not to have a diverse cast. As Karen Scott (from the former Karen Knows Best blog) said: why not show people having an experience that isn't tied to slavery trauma? Why can't these folks, just like white folks, have the pleasure of escapist fluff with people who look like them?

(We all need to see people in entertainment who look like us having more experiences than just 'ancestor was slave' or 'I can't birth no babies Miz Scarlett')

The other thing that got people's panties in a bunch was a scene where the H/h are having sex and the Simon does not want to have children and Daphne does and she gets on top and he ejaculates into her which was very not okay. So a non-consensual sex thing during a consensual sex act where a 90 pound heroine was atop a 180 pound, muscular, athletic man and he couldn't just lift her off of him and ejaculate on her stomach as usual.

That seemed silly to me.

Anyway, watch the damned show. It's delightful.

2020 Can Suck My Dick

 Once upon a time there was a place called America. Americans, like humans anywhere, were amazing, frustrating, awful and wonderful. It was far from perfect and if your skin wasn’t white, it could be downright deadly.

But America always had promise. There was a sense that one day America would get it right. One day the ones on top wouldn’t have so much power over those on the bottom. People with might care about those without. A $15 minimum wage, better funding for schools in challenging neighborhoods, shifts toward a greater equality.

It takes a village, you know.

But then came Trump. And with Trump we saw the side of America we tried to avoid. Oh hell, being a white liberal in the age of Trump was, well, not as bad as being dark skinned or an immigrant or anything else you can imagine. But it sure was eye opening.

And the pandemic was... holy shit. You know, with any other president, any other human in the presidency, we would have seen a global effort to wiping out Corona. We would have led the fight. We would have been the mother fucking superheroes this fight needed.

But we failed. And it wasn’t just Trump. The entire Republican Party showed their asses and what an unveiling that was. It wasn’t just that the party hates brown and black skinned people. We kinda knew that. It was discovering that the Republican Party hates America. Americans. You. Me. 

In less than a month Joe Biden will be president but in that month we’re going to see the Republicans do all they can to destroy America and leave Americans gasping for air. We’re going to see everything left in disarray and tatters with the hope that Biden can’t fix what was left behind.

The democrats will play their political games that never work, trying to reach across the aisle and unite Americans. What we need is someone with backbone who can say “fuck those guys” and find a way to railroad right through them. We need Mitch McConnell brought up on obstruction charges. We need sedition charges against every Republican who claimed the election wasn’t legal.

We need balls in the White House. Which is why I don’t believe in Joe Biden. But I do believe in Kamala. And Katie. And AOC.

I truly believe the only thing that will save America is women. I have only seen balls and courage from the women in politics. 

2020 and Trump and the replicants can suck my dick. Pussies are going to save our country.

Unemployed Again

Short story: we were a terrible match. I hated the job and they hated me. My self esteem is taking a major hot right now and I don't know if I can ride out this pandemic and then get on Social Security and find a part time job to help monetarily.

On the other hand: I feel much happier and more energized recently. That last job was such a downer and feeling like I don't have to be quiet and not be me is a relief to walk away from.

Coronavirus rates on the islands are rising. We had no infections on our island specifically but now those numbers are up. We've been closed down for months and the economy is dead.

Quick news: Mollie is now a sophomore. Her grades are good and she loves being in Tokyo, even if she is quarantined.

Taylor Swift just released a new album: folklore. I'm not a Swiftie but I think she's talented as hell and this album is amazing.

Hamilton on Disney + is amazing. If you can see it, see it.

The Old Guard on Netflix is also amazing and Charlize Theron is the ultimate badass. Serious woman crush happening here.

Poetry being read and written.

I love you guys out there. Stay safe.

**Note: unemployment lasted less than a week. I just accepted a job with my old employer from 2 years ago and I start day after tomorrow. I'm speechless.